You know what sucks about the Serenity Prayer? I am sure that it's the part about accepting the things you can not change (which I am told is an important part of the prayer).
A few things have happened in my world this week that, had they happened at any time prior to 2012, would have landed me in some serious hot water.
Not these days. These days, I am working on the acceptance thing. I'm "choosing my battles", "keeping my eye on the prize" or any other Cheezy (there's that word again) cliche that you'd like to insert. But, why?
Personal growth? Not likely.
Getting old? Hope not.
Losing my edge? God forbid.
No. I think it's just that I have come to the realization that, with the exception of this blog ironically, it isn't all about me.
Let that sink in... I, Dave Devito just said that!
Moreover, in order for me to accomplish my personal goals, I have figured out that I have to allow for the fact that other people have their own desires as well. Desires that can directly affect my own life, positively or negatively. The key is to recognize those, quickly, as they happen and react accordingly. Easier said than done.
So allow me to be clear here. I am in no way compromising my integrity, in no way losing my "fight" and in no way giving up on my goals.
Rather, I feel that I'm closer than ever before because I have a clearer understanding of a key aspect of my success... Acceptance of those damned things I can't change....
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